Definition of cheating in a BF/GF relationship

i_wanna_be_Brown
Wed, 06 Aug 2008 17:52:39 +0000

christine, I think that was really rude that you went to his friend and told her that you were considering breaking up with your boyfriend because she and he were going to live together. If there was any chance that you and she would eventually get along, that probably killed it.

I doubt she was conspiring to hurt you, and you have now placed her in a very, very difficult situation where her housing (which is probably too late to change easily) is a liability to one of her friends, and there may have been nothing she could have done to prevent this (i.e. if no one informed her that this would be an issue with you).