Definition of cheating in a BF/GF relationship

Bacchanalia
Wed, 06 Aug 2008 11:44:46 +0000

horsegirl1050:

Whoa whoa whoa…I’m definitely not some radical feminist. And I never said that a guy shouldn’t be able to have a close friendship with another girl. My point was that its pretty skeezy when a guy goes out of his way not to tell his GF that he is living with another woman, who, by the way, his GF doesn’t like and doesn’t trust. I wasn’t making a global statement about the state of gender affairs, I was just commenting on one very specific situation.

Bacchanalia - And I really resent being told that I can never have a healthy relationship because I’m an angry, insecure feminist. You don’t know me at all…you don’t know who I am, where I live or a thing about my personal life. Personally, I think you’re probably an ugly dude who hates women because he can’t get any…but that’s just me.

Uhh, it’s none of the GF’s business who her BF chooses to associate with or live with. From a guy’s POV: if a close friend and our current GF don’t get along, then we just hang out with them both at different times. If anything, the guy is more likely to trust a close friend he’s known his whole life than some girl he’s just recently started dating. College relationships DO NOT TAKE PRECEDENCE over friendships. It’s not like you’re married or anything.

I seem to have hit a nerve. Don’t worry, you’ll find a boyfriend someday I’m sure.