Definition of cheating in a BF/GF relationship

Rutiene
Wed, 06 Aug 2008 11:51:11 +0000

I think it’s different for every guy. Cause if I showed what you just said to any of my past bf’s (and my current), their response would be amusement. Not about the associate part, I would never try to restrict who my boyfriend hangs out with. But who he lives with can be important. And it is very much so my business, as when we hung out together he’d always have to come to my place (which may become a nuisance depending on my living situation at the time), and we would have to go out of our way to avoid his place.

I guess I’ve just been lucky that my boyfriends have been as serious about relationships as I am. I can see what you are saying if you were talking about a random fling or someone you were just messing around with. But not a boyfriend.