Difficulty finding a significant other in 20' and 30's

1214mom
Mon, 09 Jun 2025 17:49:23 +0000

I am 5’8” or 5’9”. My first husband was 6’.
My current husband is shorter than I am by a couple of inches. He says I would not have looked at him when I was in college. He’s probably not wrong.
What’s important to us when we are in our 20s and single is often very different than what’s important to us later in life.
I totally agree with the comment about it helps to be able to get to know someone - then looks, height, etc. aren’t so important. But initially, it’s just the exterior you have to judge by.