Divorce books/resources recommendations

oldfort
Fri, 26 Jan 2018 22:02:30 +0000

When my friend moved out, his ex emailed me and his friends/colleagues about what an awful person he was and what he did to her (they were lies). You have to be a pretty vindictive person in trying to discredit someone in front of his/her colleagues. After they got separated, she made it very difficult for their children to see my friend. I don’t know what happened between them behind close doors, but I know how my friend behaved after divorce - he would drive over 100 miles to pick up his young adult kids to visit whenever she allowed them, he never missed a payment to her or children, and he is paying for his kids’ college education and other expenses even if it’s not in their divorce agreement.

My friend didn’t hide his stock options from his ex. She did a full audit on their assets. My friend also had no idea if they were worth much and that’s why he consulted me. Of course, I was no expert and it was just my opinion.

@Classof2015 - no need to feel bad for the ex, she got a fairly large settlement, she just didn’t get more.