Don't understand the 2nd guessing.

MomLive
Tue, 22 Nov 2011 12:00:13 +0000

Things just don’t work out the way you think they will sometimes whether it be a college, a marriage, a house or a job. I’m not sure why once a person makes a decision, they are stuck with it forever. An emotionally healthy person sees that things, reasons, feelings change and then they take the positive step to make changes in their life as necessary. Most people view this as moving forward. On the other hand, unhealthy black and white thinking tends to say that you are now stuck with that decision, no matter what. While some people do go through life not putting much thought into their decisions, even when you do there is no way to predict with 100% accuracy how things will be once you are actually in that situation. Too many unknown unknowns.

If my child had sound reasons for wanting to transfer, I would fully support that decision (within the limits of our financial situation).