FAFSA and Parents Income

medavinci
Mon, 17 Sep 2012 19:08:44 +0000

momof2collegekids, I think you could be right about different state laws. I know in our state, automatic orders are issued, and you cannot move or change anything. But my h is defiant, and he doesn’t listen to anyone…defies everyone. Last year when I filed in June, literally every month was postponed, bec he wouldn’t fill out a fin affadavit until Dec when the judge said he had to come to court or face sanctions. He begged me to drop the divorce so he would have more money to give us (I got the free collections lawyer from DV, and he got an $8000 lawyer). So I dropped it like a fool, believing he would do this, and then I harped on him to pay for my d’s school and he ignored me. I finally threatened to shame and embarrass him with his company if he didn’t pay. He also has something set up where I could never go in and withdraw money without them calling him or I couldn’t ask for a cashier’s check, nothing. It’s the control, and I told the account manager, that I had the right to the money since my name was on the account, but they would say “hold on while we call him.” It infuriated me. After he was shamed into paying the tuition for 3 months, and then never called the school back, that’s when money mysteriously stopped showing up in the account. I thought I’d have a breakdown when the head of the school emailed me at 8pm the night before school. I wanted to drive over to his apt but I didn’t want to get myself arrested for this maniacal lunatic. The Lord must have been with me that there was $1900 in the account, so I had the school take it. They think he’s pulling a fast one, but someone from the company said that his client is definitely not buying, so there’s no commission.

The abuse is getting worse by text/email, and I just save it. I worked hard taking care of my parents, and this was while I had cancer, and people think if you are not working and getting paid, that you are not working. I kill myself trying to do it all, being mother, father and repairman, medical diagnostician, and doing this horrific commute daily with a kid not feeling so great. He puts more value on the “escorts” lives that he paid all those years, than mine demeaning me for not bringing in a paycheck and only taking care of sick people and having “diseases.” A horrible wretched soul.