Feeling guilty....should I feel this way? HELP

geezermom
Thu, 16 Oct 2008 16:14:28 +0000

I second what others have said about exploring financial aid options thoroughly. But I’d also like to add that you should not feel guilty about being realistic and honest. That’s being a good parent and a good role model for your daughter. Most of the advice you’ll read on this forum recommends that parents let their children know up front what the financial limitations are. I don’t know what state you live in, but chances are she’ll be able to get an excellent education. Don’t overlook the potential of honors programs, if your state U has one. Then perhaps she could expand her horizons by going somewhere else to work for the summer or by planning to find employment in a new part of the country after she graduates. You have so much love and admiration for your daughter, and I know she feels it. You’ll work something out together as a family, and she’ll be fine.