Feeling guilty....should I feel this way? HELP

pensive123
Sat, 18 Oct 2008 02:54:44 +0000

I know I’d feel torn, as you do, but no need to.

My d is applying to all state universities–she is a national merit semi-f and can get in-state tuition at 3 of them. It is ridiculous to graduate in debt, IMO. If your d is hardworking (sounds like she is!) she can get a great education and have plenty of fun too at your state univ. I would just go with that.

Initially, we were all for schools like johns Hopkins (her dad went there), etc. but then got very realistic. The cost is just too prohibitive. State univs are more than adequate.