Feeling like I don't belong at this college

liek0806
Fri, 01 Oct 2010 02:37:30 +0000

I think you’ll make a huge mistake if you end up transferring down. I don’t think there will be a relative difference academically from say a UCLA to a UCI. And if you’re having issues with the social aspects and meeting people because of the shyness, it wouldn’t be easier at a new school as you’ll end up finding yourself in the same spot. I don’t know what UC you attend, but if it is UCLA, they have some counseling resources like group meetings for people who are shy/timid. I’m sure if you’re not at UCLA, your UC is bound to have similar resources.

Also do give it time. Usually the first semester/quarter for college students tends to be a transitioning period academically. No one really knows what to expect since most probably have never taken a class at X school, and it might just be that others are putting a front of how smart/intelligent they are since it is their first college experience and are probably behaving in a manner that they think is ideal for the environment. The only thing you should worry about is if you end up receiving d’s and f’s after your second semester/quarter.