Girlfriend Going To Another Fraternities Formal?

Vctory
Tue, 06 Oct 2015 16:04:36 +0000

I’ve been on both sides of this.

Last Friday, my date cancelled at the last minute (genuine reason, brother drove 5 hours and surprised her with a visit) and l took a close, non-single female friend (I used to hook up w/) to a dated event for my fraternity. I’m friends with her boyfriend, though, and I made sure he was alright with her going with me. If he was hesitant at all, I would’ve immediately found someone else.

Twoish years ago, my now-ex went as a date with her ex to a dated event. I was extremely uncomfortable with it. They hooked up; we broke up.

You have a right to be uncomfortable and you should get out of that relationship if she doesn’t get that.

Edit: “Another fraternity’s formal”–is she not going to yours? If so, that’s a really low blow.