Girlfriend troubles and jealousy issues

leah377
Mon, 25 May 2009 19:53:34 +0000

i mean, i found some sketchy stuff in my ex-boyfriend’s email. some girl at his work gave him her number; he ripped it up & said he didn’t want it but i later found out he’d already saved it in his phone…then he sent facebook messages to like 3 different girls with her name trying to find her. i found out about that and got kind of upset, but he said it was nothing so i let it go.

then a week and a half later i found a long string of facebook messages between them AND a bunch of text messages. she’d said things like, “i get first dibs if anything goes awry with your gf,” etc., and he’d suggested they hang out sometime. he’d been telling me bold-faced lies about it that entire time.

keep in mind that he had previously cheated on me. i flipped out and finally ended our relationship for good.

while this situation isn’t quite elevated to that level yet, don’t be too naive because i’ve learned you really can’t trust anything but your intuition…