girls cutting

tlaktan
Sun, 17 Apr 2005 02:33:08 +0000

I don’t know what I’m trying to prove by writing all this. The best advice that I can give to anyone dealing with a cutter is to offer your unwavering support, and to be available to listen without judging. Don’t commiserate, though–try to bring the cutter’s attention to the positive things in her (it’s usually a she) life, without seeming too fake and cheerful. Never berate her for cutting, or taunt her, or call her ridiculous. I can’t promise that this will work for everyone, but this kind of gentle but firm support is something I wish I’d had.





Hey, Thanks for your post! It really gave me some insight into the whole situation. I’m still on very good terms with my ex, and I do worry sometimes about the cutting thing.

I’ve tried all of the above before, but… it really hasn’t worked. She’s rather happy now, but what if this happens again? I’ve never been more concerned with anyone like I am with her…