Girls: Will you ever ask out a guy?

crazyday
Fri, 02 Jul 2010 02:17:56 +0000

A key thing to remember is that every girl, every woman, has a deeply embedded insecurity about her appearance. This is more difficult to draw out in some women than others; if they get approached numerous times every time they go out, by pretty attractive/confident guys, it’s going to be harder to make them feel this insecurity.

An extremely physically attractive girl that gets approached by guys all the time is not going to feel insecure about herself around most guys, especially the garden variety clingy shy guys. But you bet your ass if Derek Jeter walked up and started talking to her, she would be freaking out inside regarding everything about her. It’s a matter of displaying enough confidence and value to draw that out and gain the upper hand, where she’s worried about losing your interest instead of the other way around.

Every girl/woman has this, at least any that you would worry about dating (some really just don’t give a ****, see the majority of extreme obesity cases). It’s funny, the other day I went to my doctor with my mom and my mom was like “hey I saw you at the store the other! day!” and the first thing my doctor said was “Oh you did!? Oh my gosh I looked so terrible…” and continued commenting on how bad she looked. A 40-50 year old married doctor with children insecure about her appearance. Just another example.