Girls: Will you ever ask out a guy?

BrandoIsCool
Fri, 02 Jul 2010 23:25:27 +0000

What ever happened to the “thrill of the chase”? I thought guys liked that sort of thing…



I’ve never heard of that…but I know that some (many?) girls like getting attention from guys, so they will often try to one guy jealous to get the other guy to “fight” for her attention…

In all honesty, if there was a scale of ability to read body language and gauge attraction, females would be around 8-9, while males would be stuck at 2-3. This assumes that 5 is about avg. Females read body language so much more easily, it should be them that’s calling the shots. I’ve heard NUMEROUS times how the girl is not interested but the guy won’t get the hints. Or how about, the girl trying to get the guys attention, she does everything, even falling on his lap, and the guy MIGHT get the idea that she’s into him! Bottom line: Its takes a guy HUGE amounts of extremely obvious, subtle body language before a guy will know that she’s interested. That’s probably why trying to get a date can be so freakin’ hard.

Also, some girls are just too nice. If you aren’t interested, just say that you aren’t interested! Don’t do the sugar coating nonsense, that will just give him mixed messages…if life were only easier.