Girls...WTH?

BedHead
Fri, 16 Mar 2007 13:50:20 +0000

Oh yeah. Never assume a girl is uninterested just because she has a boyfriend. Having a boyfriend means almost nothing in terms of whether or not you can get with her.

The problem with a girl having a boyfriend is not that she is morally obligated to not hook up with you. Screw that. The problem is the boyfriend might get on your case. Beat you up. Take you down. Etc.



Wow, no wonder you call yourself jaded. There are many, many girls who would take a strong ethical stance on this. But sometimes feelings/passions overcome ethics. My point to Atlantiz is that these opportunities often present themselves in messy ways. At the point that she is interested in him, he needs to express his interest in return. If he waits too long, she will most likely have dumped her current boyfriend AND lost whatever interest she may have in Atlantiz.

And the bigger picture in my opinion is not whether or not he kisses her or otherwise gets with her, but whether she deals with it honestly when she has the best opportunity to do so. It’s not the nicest thing to do to anybody to break up by phone, assuming that would be required in this case because of the distances involved. If she is only an hour away from home, she could do it sooner than during vacation. Or she could decide that doing it by phone is better than living a lie for awhile.



I’m pretty tired about all these threads about girls. You losers.



By the way, I guess you decided to join the losers…