Girls...WTH?

atlantiz
Fri, 16 Mar 2007 14:41:44 +0000

hey guys thanks for the advice. but my situation is a tiny more complicated than that.

he thing is…im not sure if im into her. it “could” happen but the thing is I told this OTHER girl who i have been interested in a while that I liked her a month ago and gave her a rose and all that jazz (this was my first time doing this, but im glad i did it. TOOK BALLS!). We have good communication (we dont hide stuff from each other and trust each other), so it was not weird for her to tell me she wasnt sure if she wanted to head down that path (which is understandable b/c she is super busy with classes…go to library a lot and also she got turned down by a guy the week before i told her how i felt…doh! bad timing). She was really considerate and we were comfortable just spending a good amt of time just being honest and talking about it.

I am very glad we are not currently “awkward”. We talk and stuff (not quite normal like before…ive been laying off a little) b/c we both treasure our friendship that we had built and didnt want to end it after what happened that night. I still sorta have feelings (not as strong cus i got rejected…but im hanging in there) for her, and dont want to give up on her. I feel that we’re good in a way that she may give me a shot, but it might not be the right time (who knows when it will be or if there WILL be a time).

The other girl i was mentioning is kinda making things complicated–not in a bad way, but im just confused…should i hang on to the other girl or go wit the one with the bf…or do nothing. I feel bad for saying this, but I would prefer to go out with the girl who i asked out even tho the one with a bf is really a sweet girl herself…and no, she has never mentioned her bf to me. im not in a rush for a relationship, so… should i play it out?