Girls...WTH?

BedHead
Fri, 16 Mar 2007 13:27:41 +0000

Does she ever talk about her boyfriend to you? Because if she does (and it’s not negative) then she’s probably not interested in dating you…but if she never says anything about him and all you know is what you see on Facebook, she might be curious.



I think in general Katho11 gives very good advice here. But I differ in that don’t think the choice is so clear-cut between she’s interested and she won’t be interested 'cause she has a boyfriend. The third, vaguer middle way is likely to be some muddle made up in parts of “I don’t know. I am confused. I like ______, my boyfriend, but he’s only in high school and far away. And the guys here are interesting. Or that guy (atlantiz) seems really cool.” And if you express interest against this confusion, the odds are likely to favor you, if she does in fact like you or if she’s wondering whether she would like to go out with you or she’s wondering whether you are interested in her. Don’t wait for permission from her, just act with confidence and the realization that part of life for a guy is making the move and risking getting shut down.