Giving drunk roommates the cold shoulder?

fa-la-la-lena
Sun, 12 Sep 2010 03:27:37 +0000

^OP, do you even know what dangerously drunk is? Are they harming you? Are they blacking out? Are they physically injuring themselves? If not, then just leave them alone. RAs are NOT going to solve anything and are only going to isolate you further from the rest of your roommate.

And please, don’t expect to be friends with your roommates - they sound like creepos anyways. You just have to make sure you can co-exist peacefully. You do know that there are thousands of kids at your university - and it is still so early in the year, don’t say that you want to transfer so early when you barely have even gone out and tried to meet others in classes, clubs/organizations etc. Yes - there are kids who make their best friends in college right away. But seriously, you are not alone. Many students take a few weeks or even months to get adjusted. Don’t give up hope, and don’t have a nasty attitude towards your school so early otherwise you are going to be severely limiting the friendships you may make in the future.