Giving up on dating

1Dreamer
Mon, 07 Jan 2019 08:53:33 +0000

I don’t think you’re following me, so I’ll try one last time here and then I give up. Did you set up a specific date? Saturday at 7:00 at X restaurant, for example? If you did and they didn’t show up and ghosted you, then yes, that’s rude. If not, you didn’t ask them out. You just talked about meeting in person at some point during the week or weekend to be determined later - after you’ve already spent hours talking to them and messaging with them, perhaps over multiple days. What are you waiting for?

If some of them asked YOU out, you set it up right then - assuming you actually wanted to go out with them. If you don’t and just keep calling and messaging without proposing and confirming an actual date, time and place for the date, at some point they’re going to cut it off.