Having trouble fitting in and making friends

livesinnewjersey
Mon, 02 May 2011 21:05:34 +0000

It takes courage 1. to make new friends & 2. to move on from a girl"friend" . When you are couregous you are usually rewarded.

It sounds like you use caution when you make friends but maybe you need to put yourself out there (by sharing & talking) without being too much of a dork. If you can develope your communication skills it will come more easily. (Not public speaking but comm 101)

Comm 101 goes like this: When your friends are talking if you are really listening to what they say - you can often ask them another very relevant, petinent question, then they keep talking & think you’re the best guy to be around. Be careful not to interogate. Sometimes you might need to be the conversation starter-- nobody likes to hang with boring people…

Get some books or take a Comm 101 course. Don’t stay in your room playing video games byself- that’s dull. Good Luck!