Health and mobility as one gets older

Colorado_mom
Tue, 19 Mar 2024 18:42:21 +0000

Youdon_tsay:

who want to honor her wishes and keep her at home,

It’s great you and sibs agree to make that a priority. But if at some point she declines badly, it’s possible she won’t appreciate the difference being home vs elsewhere. (Speculation, based on my grandmother’s Alzheimer’s… eventual nursing home after years of my mom caring for her parents full time.). At that point I suspect the “old normal mom” would want have been OK with you moving her elsewhere. The main thing is the good care at home before that point.