Help Need to Make Important Decision Today!

Cardinal_Fang
Fri, 15 Jan 2016 19:16:47 +0000

You’re an adult now, dsb444. Adults live up to their commitments, even when they change their minds. You don’t get to take the benefit of the deal-- an early acceptance-- and then refuse to live up to your part of the deal. That’s not the way the adult world works.

Do you want to accept TCU or Cal Poly or some other school, only to have them change their minds? “We had a change of heart. We thought we wanted dsb444, but now we’ve decided they are not the student for us. Is it wrong to have changed our minds and rejected the students we at first accepted? We don’t want students to look down on us and think we don’t keep our commitments. We just want the student body we think is right for us.”

It doesn’t work like that. People make agreements, and then they keep them. If you didn’t want to commit to going to Cal Poly, then you should not have committed to going to Cal Poly. But you did. Now do it.