Help with private student loans

cinnamon1212
Mon, 21 Aug 2023 15:07:14 +0000

It is clear that there is consensus around one answer here.

I say this with kindness, you might consider therapy to figure out why you are putting yourself in the position of passive, helpless victim here, without the ability to take a decision clearly in your best interest.

I’ve had friends divorce from narcissists, and I see many similarities with your situation (notably neither ever wants to “rock the boat”).