Help with private student loans

momsearcheng
Tue, 22 Aug 2023 16:49:45 +0000

@Sarah899, I totally agree with @coolguy40. No matter how much you love your son, you are an adult here. Tell your son, that if he wants filmmaking- it can be a second major or a minor. Major should feed him. I think your son needs gap year, work for a year, apply to another college and perform a reality check. Your approach now to go with the flow is suicidal for your family and your son’s future. Excuse me, but he is young and immature; he does not understand the implications of his choices.
My oldest daughter wanted a theater major - I said no problem. You go to Community College and do theater major, I am not paying for it… She was extremely upset. Then she suggested major in theater and minor in engineering. I said no again. Engineering is a major - minor anything you want. Guess what, 3 years down the road? Now she is not interested in theater at all. She loves dancing in college and finally she does love her Engineering major and happy with her choice. Please act like a parent, not like a friend even if you will be hated for a while. I was hated; I was presented like a bad parent. I do not care…