Help with private student loans

thealternative
Mon, 21 Aug 2023 16:28:53 +0000

Yes, this unhealthy and unwinnable dynamic can spike a marriage regardless of the sex of the spouse or in-laws. The other party often caves, with personally disastrous consequences, until they divorce (with ruined credit and debts) or illness or, in extreme but not that uncommon circumstances, death.

This thread is no joke and the OP deserves support, which has been given - in various tones from kind to no-nonsense.

If the OP has indeed moved forward, she still needs allies to move forward with a plan to pay this debt down while it’s being incurred. Meaning that the son needs an outsider being clear to him about what the debt is, how it will grow, and what salary he needs to earn to pay it back. He needs to be responsible for this, starting now.