Hiatus from work for the high school years

momofthreeboys
Mon, 18 Jun 2018 00:03:20 +0000

I believe from previous posts that the spouse does not support the path the OP chose with regard to one if the childten’s issues. He is saying that he supports her if she wants to change up her work situation to follow through on the path she chose. Subtle but important distinction within a marriage in my opinion. When my husband retired I told him in numerous conversations I wasn’t going to give him his spending money since he could have looked for another job and worked 10 more years. I supported his decision to retire at 50 but had zero plans to fund his fun money until he could collect social security or we could tap retirement funds. My H figured it out and what he would do and I am sure the OP can also. I still think through the OPs post that the husband has been transparent. She may not be happy about the trajectory of her original choice but that choice was on the table and had been made for the immediate future. It sounds like she has good counsel with her therapist.