Homesick after the holidays

Laura9
Tue, 11 Jan 2011 15:06:45 +0000

Kate,
I am dealing with the same exact thing. We seem to think the same way. Last semester, I got mono & strep and had to be home for 10 days. I broke up with my boyfriend and switched roommates. Yet despite all of that, I wasn’t really that homesick. I had a really great break at home and was extremely sad to come back. I tried to talk to people and see if they were homesick too, but most were not. I’m only about 3 hours from home, but I’ve considered transferring to a school in my town. I’m actually really homesick right now, but have a few tips that may work.

1. People say to join a bunch of clubs, however I’m kind of shy and that tends to overwhelm me. It may help if you have a close friend that you can take to an organization fair with you or something.

2. Don’t compare yourself to other people. A lot of people suffer from what we do, but many many do not. You’re allowed to feel whatever you need to.

3. I don’t know if you’re religious, but going to church has helped me a lot…Please don’t be offended if you aren’t religious Just a suggestion

4. It may be said that these are supposed to be the best years of our lives, but who cares what others think? Just do your best and your time will come!
5)I think it will eventually get easier. It really helped me to read your post because I’ve been struggling too! You’re not alone! And try not to worry about your next break!

I hope you feel better. I’ve called my relatives numerous times crying this week. Just remember that college is temporary!!