How do you handle an incessant talker?

lookingforward
Sat, 16 Nov 2013 12:15:35 +0000

The people I know who do this aren’t always off balance or insensitive. I’m not sure I’d call it insecurity, but sometimes they need to talk to know they have a place and that they matter. If we listen, it seems to affirm them. In some cases, I can give them a task- they feel useful and like they are participating.

That said, my MIL chatted on inane topics- I finally realized it was that she wanted us to know we mattered. Filling empty air was her way. She was also a heart of gold sort and beloved by her friends and acquaintances. Drove me nuts. Sometimes. It was when this slowed down that we got worried.