How much aid can I get realistically?

twoinanddone
Sun, 12 Oct 2014 03:49:07 +0000

There is an amount for one child, and then a maximum amount for all children. Basically, if one child gets about $1000 and a second child about $800, that total amount is divided among all children. In this case of 3 kids, each would get about $600/mo, but when the older twins drop off, the younger child gets $1000. The spouse can get a ‘caregiver’ amount too if she/he isn’t eligible for his/her own benefits. And there is a family max. And it’s all pretty complicated, especially if there are kids from multiple families all sharing the money.

OP’s father isn’t trying to take her money. He’s supporting the family. He’s promised to pay for college, although there is no requirement that he do so.