How quickly do you get emotionally attached to someone?

silverpebble
Tue, 10 Jul 2007 19:18:32 +0000

Females usually get attached faster. I am of the ‘reserved at first, then warm up’ camp personally. I’ve been hurt, so I choose not to trust a person until they’ve proven they are trustworthy (there’s no specific thing they have to do, I just have to feel comfortable). It makes perfect sense that you try to get close to people quickly when you don’t have many people you can depend on - you’re searching for companionship. Just make sure you’re not pushing people away because of your efforts to draw them in.