How to deal with large dinners and recruiting

Pancaked
Sun, 14 Jul 2013 20:36:48 +0000

I have this issue in groups sometimes, particularly when the other people all have some sort of chemistry with eachother and I’m not a part of it. Unlike a 1-1 or 1-2 conversation, you kinda feel you’ve interrupted the rest of the group when you speak, so your thoughts have to be more novel and important. For me, I sometimes dismiss my more frivolous thoughts, whereas they would come right out in a 1-1 or 1-2 situation.

I find it’s easier to target/respond to one person at a time rather than addressing the entire group. Dunno if that’ll work for you.