How to make friends with American students?

TheGreyKing
Wed, 12 Sep 2018 23:41:41 +0000

Remember that everyone is trying to get to know other people, so do not be shy about starting conversations. Remember to listen as well as talk, and be interested in learning where they are from, what classes they are taking, what they might major in, etc. Go to every social event and talk to people. Hang out in your dorm’s common room. Walk down your hall and see which other students would like to join you at meal times. Join a club or music group or intramural sport or some other group that does an activity you especially enjoy.

Is there a club that plays video games or is into sci fi? Whether there is a formal club for this or not, plenty of Americans enjoy video games and sci fi! You will find your niche.

You do not have to drink alcohol to attend a party where it is served. No one will care if you are drinking water or soda when they are drinking beer. And you may be surprised at how many other people also do not drink.

And yes, there is no harm in speaking with a therapist/counselor at your college to get advice and to role play interactions. Maybe it might be helpful to you. Counselors at colleges are used to helping new students make friends.