how to stop being shy

intparent
Mon, 15 Jan 2018 02:58:41 +0000

That just isn’t really true. I have a friend in his late 50s who never really mastered his shyness. He was laid off from the company he worked for his whole career a couple of years ago, and has been unable to find work in his field. Mostly because he just cannot interview effectively. He’s joined a friend’s carpentry business and changed careers, but I think he’d rather be an engineer. I’d suggest that the OP SHOULD work on it. They may never be the sparkling life of the party or present every day for a living. But working to gain some skills in this area is important. Some people need to learn to do things more by studying and practicing that other people take for granted. And that is okay – but just pretending the problem doesn’t exist isn’t likely to be very effective.