how to stop being shy

orionary
Sun, 14 Jan 2018 18:21:27 +0000

Hey there! I am a current H.S Senior and I face the same problem as you! Except, I am a natural stutterer (aka I have a speech disorder). My disorder has made me to be more reserved and solo-minded, but I’m not technically “shy”. I just don’t wanna make a fool out of myself when I speak and my stutter shows, but I do like to consult with people. It’s normal for you to be shy! Eventually, in everybody’s life, you’re gonna learn to get out of that bubble and find people that match your personality and you all grow in relationship and the next thing you know: you’re gonna be the loudest ones in class! Now, I don’t participate in class unless they call on me, but I bet 75% of any class don’t even want to anyways. I also have a presentation this Tuesday! Am I going to be nervous? Sure. Am I gonna stutter? Yes. Am I gonna shy away from my crowd? NO. I’m here to present what I have and move on.

My advice: Find people that are gentle, supportive, and have the same trait as you. You’ll find it much easier to talk and laugh once you adapt.

Good luck and HAVE FUN IN HIGH SCHOOL WHILE YOU CAN!!