Husband blames me for S's waitlist

breathedeeply
Sun, 27 Mar 2011 20:42:32 +0000

You seem pretty confident POIH, so I’m not worried that you think we are ganging up on you. Please don’t think I’m taking my frustrations with a domineering husband out on you either…but what you said is really remarkable. You said that when you asked your wife, she said that your influence on your daughter’s decision making takes your equal relationship out of kilter. You then quickly followed with, “But if you take that out of the equation, our relationship is equal.” WHAT? Are you really alright with knowing that you have a nearly adult daughter who is still worried about what Daddy thinks? You don’t see a future problem ahead for you, your daughter and your perfect family unit? It’s time to cut the cord and let her fly.