I always feel inadequate no matter what I do.

momcinco
Tue, 13 May 2014 23:22:48 +0000

OP, please please please know that you are in my prayers and that you will be given love and light if you can just be brave enough to look for it. Your feelings are understandable and if anyone had been through what you have, they would most likely say that those are normal reactions given your situation (which most of us have not had to go thorugh). But they are just feelings…let them exist, emitions aren’t “good” or “bad,” they just are. But know that you ARE an incredible person. Just the fact that you were brave enough to share this means so much to those who read it. You have come so far, don’t give up now! You don’t have to take on the rest of your life at this very moment. Just let yourself listen to your heart and make the best decisions you can given what you have available. You are not inadequate. You are more than enough. You are going to be okay. I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and please do keep in touch with this website, there are wonderful people who come here.