I hate community college. There's no social life?

bvo112
Tue, 17 Nov 2015 04:35:55 +0000

OP, based on what you have written, you wouldn’t exceed well socially at a 4-year university as well. People will still be on their phones during a class at a 4-year university. Maybe the clubs at a 4-year university can help you if you can find people who have similar interests as you over there. I do agree that some people at community college are just there to just get their wok done and leave/transfer once they are finished. Based on “I’m very lonely in school, I hate eating lunch by myself in the cafeteria, most of the time I see three people eating by themselves with their phone but I don’t want to walk up to a table and sit with a random person” and “and I hate starting a conversation because I feel annoying and the person don’t want to talk to me,” don’t expect people will come to you as they may have the same mentality as you. It is completely normal to strike up a conversation as long you are being mindful of what you are saying, during what time you are saying this, and the environment. I think you have a hard time talking to people in general. You will eventually have to learn how to approach people. I am not just talking about at your community college or a 4-year university. I am talking about pretty much anywhere else as having effective communication and people skills are essential if you want to do well in terms of communicating with someone. Don’t let the fear of you thinking about screwing up ruined you or else you may miss these opportunities. Every opportunity is a chance worth taking if you can see something good out of it.