I offended my roommates? Am I being unreasonable?

austinmshauri
Sun, 10 Nov 2019 18:54:32 +0000

I would quit texting her. If there are clothes in the dryer when you’re doing laundry put them in a basket or on a towel on the couch until you’re done. Then put them back in the dryer since that seems to be where she wants them. Why tell her every time you move them?

It sounds like there’s more going on with all of you than laundry (dishes being left, issues with sides of the sink, etc.). Do you guys talk in person at all? Using a group chat, or email, to criticize someone isn’t a great way to make friends or impress colleagues. Using one to say, hey, can we all remember to…" when what you mean is, “Amy, would you please remember to…” is a little on the passive aggressive side. Pick your battles and maybe try not to point out every time they make a mistake. If you do feel like you need to discuss something with one of them then go talk directly to them. A group chat won’t solve anything.