I'm a student - I need some help...

sk8rmom
Sun, 31 May 2009 20:54:09 +0000

I just want to make friends and be happy. And well I guess I’m asking what the hell you think I should do. I mean I’m worried about transfering away because I’m afraid I’ll have to make friends or I’ll be alone all the time, this will be worse if I’m away cuz I’ll have to sit by myself at lunch and dinner and be alone in the tiny dorm.



My philosophy on life is “Wherever you go, there you are”, which is kind of the same feeling you have I think. Transferring isn’t going to help much if you’re still feeling sad and not up to seeking out new friends and all. I do think you need a change of scenery, at least for awhile, and something to sort of bring you out of your funk. It sounds like you’re convinced that medications are bad (not all are, but it’s a personal choice too) and that counseling isn’t the answer and, if so, it probably won’t be much benefit to you right now. Would you consider doing some traveling, perhaps as part of a student or volunteer group? Maybe even doing a backpack type tour for the summer would help - something about alot of excercise, plus nature, and the casual camaraderie of other people you meet along the way is always uplifting to me.

If you have a spiritual leader, have a conversation with him/her and see if they have any ideas. If you don’t, many pastors are very good listeners and the door is always open, regardless of your actual affiliation.