inappropriate holiday greeting cards

snowball
Fri, 25 Dec 2009 13:43:14 +0000

As this whole business between my husband and his partner has been more than stressful, my husband does not like to talk about it a lot. I have to get him at the right time with no interruptions to have a discussion. We talked a bit this morning about the greeting cards again as I felt I didn’t know enough about it. He told me that the few people that received the card that his partner felt were inappropriate, were people that he knows enjoy them. A few of them have even thanked him for the cards and say they save them as they enjoy rereading the card as well as my husband’s note. Now that roshke told the above story, I will wonder if these woman are keeping the cards to throw back in my husband’s face later; I really don’t think that would happen, but in today’s climate I guess anything is possible.

We have decided that in the future all cards will be very simple; lesson learned, right or wrong. When the two men go through there divorce, things will be different in my husband new office. I think he will not continue to be the kind of boss he currently is for a while; he needs to get over the hurt of his partner’s accusations and reevaluate how he wants his practice to run. I feel in time it will all work out, but starting over this late in life is not what either one of us bargained for.