Is this friendship toxic?

coco55
Sat, 04 May 2019 17:27:54 +0000

She sounds really jealous and insecure. I definitely recommend either inviting her to group plans as @bopper suggested, or perhaps just leaving the ball in her court. If she wants to spend time with you, let her reach out. It also might help to just express how you’re feeling, if she’s the type of person who responds well to that (although it seems like she may not be). Something as simple as what you just said in the post could work, just a little more gentle. For example, “Hey, I’ve noticed that you’ve been cancelling plans a lot lately. I hope everything is okay with you, but it’s getting a little draining for me. Is there anything we could do to make this easier on both of us?”