Kid's Ugly Break-up - Get involved or no?

HImom
Sat, 09 Sep 2017 21:58:03 +0000

My family was VERY careful never to get involved when I broke up with any of my boyfriends, even tho I dated each them quite seriously for several years (including some premarital counseling). I’m glad they stayed out of it, as I don’t think anything good would gave cone from them being involved at all.

Obviously there was some good and bad in the relationship. If your child wants specific possessions back, he has to ask. If he’s unable or unwilling, he has the option of asking you or someone else to ask, and at that point you can decide if you want to be “monkey in the middle” or not.