Lack of maturity?

TS0104
Sat, 25 Jan 2020 17:12:58 +0000

Just wanted to review OP’s concerns: 1) Not doing extra stuff like turning in assignments early or going to extra study sessions 2) sleeping until noon 3) messy. She didn’t say he was focused on partying. As for 1 and 2, he’s going to his classes and getting a 3.2. She has reasons for not asking him to get a job now, including the fact that he’s taking 17.5 credit hours, and there is no mention that he has resisted getting a job now or over the summer or is not meeting her expectations on that front.

As for the drugs, glad someone brought it up. From what I hear this is RAMPANT on campuses and I think the kids do think it is very normal/harmless/no big deal/everyone does it. Not that that makes it any less illegal, code of conduct prohibited, and a bad idea in so many ways. This honestly sounds like a tough problem, maybe worth another thread. Mom is trying to manage with low quantities, son is trying to manage the best times to utilize his meds for himself.