Lack of maturity?

ucbalumnus
Mon, 27 Jan 2020 15:09:34 +0000

Lindagaf:

If she’s footing the bill, she gets to tell him what’s acceptable and what isn’t, within reason.

Given that the OP’s username includes “tigermom” and the OP self describes as “type A”, it may not be surprising that her relationship with a kid who is not like that is under stress, with different definitions of “within reason”.