looks and height in college

stargazerlilies
Thu, 19 Feb 2009 12:47:22 +0000

russell - i guess they’re limited the same way chubby girls and unattractive girls are (although the fat women have it the worst, I think) - they’re less than the ideal and there’s nothing they can do to change that. except fat women technically can lose weight, assuming there’s no med problems, but ugly/short/plain looking girls can’t really do anything. this is basically the ideal for women, or what we think is the ideal:
above average height, not too tall but not short
slender, but not a stick
big boobs, a C being ideal I guess
pretty face/features

so being short/ugly/fat/big nosed is a limitation, because it detracts from your looks. Not that it’s a big deal, few women fit the ideal, but let’s be honest, your looks play a big role in who you date. I’ve already said several times I think short guys have it worse, but short women are kinda limited also, as guys prefer above average chicks, just like we prefer taller men.