Love Sick Freshman

laxtaxi
Wed, 06 Aug 2008 20:29:46 +0000

Deb. Your husband needs counseling. ASAP. For his family, for his health, for himself. Not speaking with his daughter for six weeks means that he has too few tools in his toolbox to use when he gets stuck. It’s not a question of immaturity, it’s a question of development as a human being. Someone who is carrying that much frustration that he can sustain not speaking to his daughter for that long is a candidate for any early stress-related death.

In fact, counseling may not be enough. He may need an intervention. PM if you want a suggestion for a program to help someone jumpstart that process.