My First Year at Kelley: Should I Transfer Out?

boseownr
Sat, 09 Jan 2021 22:14:49 +0000

Hi!! I didn’t read your entire thread but sounds like you have gotten some great advice! If it makes you feel any better I KNOW that you are not alone! I have a son at Kelley who is now a senior. Guess what…I got a call that he wanted to transfer until he got into a business fraternity (coed). It turns out that some others in the frat felt the same way until they found their group…this could be ANY group (as others have said above).

We parents are very saddened for you students (college and hs) having to go through COVID and making socializing and normal class time less available as well as those other opportunities to socialize…but push through and find some opportunities…be creative in your search for finding some friends or enjoy getting to know yourself and finding your personal strengths and enjoyment.

I just wanted you to know that this is a common feeling no matter where you go to college. Put yourself out there (as able) and try to find or MAKE your group!!! I also know that they have counseling there…take advantage of that and share your thoughts and feelings! Talk to other students…you are not alone in this feeling!!

Thank you so much for sharing your story!! Stay strong…this is a big character builder and an opportunity to develop resilience for your future… I know from experience!

Please let us know what you decide to do and how things are going!!!