Need advice on college choice, $$, etc.

intparent
Sun, 06 Mar 2016 03:43:58 +0000

Some of us are writing checks like this, consider it worthwhile, and wouldn’t reneg on the commitment to do so without something major happening (illness, job loss). The OP said money wasn’t an object, then decided after the kid had the brass ring that it was.

OP, you have not answered the question of what your spouse thinks. I wonder if the spouse thinks this is an expenditure they should make.