Need unbiased opinion

sherpa
Mon, 06 Aug 2018 15:42:10 +0000

I’m in the minority here, and think it’s fine to accept the invitation. The fact that the husbands have remained close and the wives haven’t seems irrelevant; things evolve and that’s ok. The fact that the wife might have had reservations about loaning out the house also seems irrelevant; apparently the couple has jointly decided to move beyond that.

I’d take things at face value. The offer was made, so I’d assume it was sincere and would accept if it sounded like a good vacation destination.