Niece needs guidance , mother not stepping up

MedSchHopeful
Sun, 09 Jan 2011 15:45:37 +0000

Maybe Grandma can talk to your niece and say something along the lines of “If you want to transfer and you want me to keep paying, I want you to find at least 3-4 good options, visit them, and then come up with a plan telling me why these are good options and why one is your favorite.” Then the two of them can choose together which one they think your niece should go to. And if your niece really really does want to live near her bf, she can choose a school with some other merits so she won’t be at a loss if/when her and bf break up.