no friends in school?

icierair
Sun, 08 Oct 2006 02:20:00 +0000

hahaha its ironic that you corrected them especially when you corrected them wrong.
Whoever brought up the thing about changing your wardrobe & whatnot: There’s this girl at my school, lets call her Mary. Mary transfered in sophmore year. Mary, for some reason, DESPERATLY wanted to be popular. She hung around the outskirts of the “In-crowd” and tried really hard to be part of the group of 5 girls. Our school has a VERY STRICT uniform policy, but Mary would always try to have the newest Juicy bag or whatever the popular girls wanted. These girls ALWAYS made fun of Mary and she was not accepted by that group. I also transfered in Sophmore year. I was friends with one of the guys in the “popular” group so he invited me to a party he had. The party was relatively small and the whole time the “popular” girls kept telling me to hang out with them and the “leader” went out and said “The people you hang out with arn’t cool. Come sit with us at lunch on Monday”.
I never went and hung out with that group.This year that group broke into 2. I still hear all the members of that group gossip about eachother.
Moral of the story:

1. Don’t be someone you’re not. I didn’t have the lastest bag and I didn’t try to be cool but for some reason they wanted to hang out with me.

2. Don’t be to clingy. They didn’t like how that girl Mary hung onto them, and I guarantee you no one likes a leech.

3. Be friends with people you want to be friends with. If you identify yourself with the stoners, then hang out with them. If you like the “losers” then hang out with them. Better yet have friends from different social groups. Befriend people you envision yourself being friends with, not people that are “cool” and “popular”