No Friends

hanram02
Sat, 29 Sep 2012 12:48:33 +0000

Hey everyone, I’ve been at college for 10 days now and I don’t have ANY friends, I eat alone, work-out alone, and on Friday night I had a pretend phone conversation because I didn’t have anyone to go out with. I was pretty popular in high school and had a wide set of friends, but I realized that every single one of my HS friends became my friend because we played a sport together. Now I don’t play sports in college, so I’ve tried intramural and club, but it’s not the same. I can’t make the same bond with them. I also really miss my family, I was closer to my family than 99 percent of the kids in my HS. I want to go home this weekend just to see them, but I know that it’s bad to go home because you can’t make friends there and it gives you a false sense of security. Every keeps telling me it will take time to get adjusted, but I don’t know how long I can wait and I don’t see how things will get better. I mean everyone already has friends and I don’t. If anyone has any advice that’s not cliche (join a club, say hi to someone in class) please let me know. Thank you for listening.