Not "partying" in college

SEA_tide
Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:23:14 +0000

It’s certainly possible not to drink at college. I know many people who do not drink at all, or just a little bit now and then. Some of them even go to parties every weekend. If you don’t want to be involved in anything that involves drinking, look around for other activities, go home for the weekend (if possible) or play on facebook/CC. Many Christian groups are known for their avoidance of alcohol and I know of at least one Muslim that joined a Christian group for this reason. As an Atheist myself, it seems odd to join a Christian group, so this is probably not an option for you. Do check to see if your future university has an Atheist or freethinking group that you can join. While the members may not have religious reasons for not drinking, many do not drink or drink very little for reasons similar to yours. People might ask why you don’t drink and you can give reasons if you want. Plenty of people don’t like beer and/or cheap liquor, don’t want to lose control, or don’t want a MIP. I’m one one of these people. You can always suggest non-alcoholic activities or even offer to be the designated driver, which may be the best reason of all for not drinking (though you would probably be with some very thankful drunk people). College is not all about drinking and partying and your decision to not drink/party will be respected by the vast majority of people.