Only Got into State Schools: How to tell Mom?

PetraElise
Sat, 29 Mar 2014 02:20:19 +0000

@AVagrant – no worries – to you, it is a big deal, because it’s a big deal to your mom. But at some point, you have to let go of her expectations, and realize that what you are achieving is wonderful, and worthwhile. We each have unique family situations, and it’s impossible for me to know every thing about yours – but I do know that you are the one who is starting this adventure, and you are the one who needs to thrive – so make the choice that best suits what you need. Obviously economics may come into play and affect the choice, but other than that, it’s your ballgame not your mom’s. And I’m a mom, so I know a little bit about having to let go of my dreams, and let my girls have theirs.

I see you are considering medicine – there is the chance to be accepted at a higher ranked college for graduate school, especially if you do really solid work in undergrad. And it’s to your benefit to have less debt now at a state school, in preparation for more expenses that will come up for grad school.