Opinion needed on how to handle work situation

intparent
Wed, 22 Aug 2012 23:47:51 +0000

Agree about being firm about meeting outside (it is fine to cite workplace policy). Regarding repeating himself, many older people have memory issues. He probably literally does not remember that he has told the same story over and over again. I think it is actually great that you have been willing so far to lend an ear and provide some company for him. If he were my dad or older relative, I would be grateful that he has made a connection.

However… you maybe need to put a time limit on it. When he comes over to chat, you could say, “Hi, Mr X! It is great to see you. I can chat for X (say, 10 minutes), then I need to finish a few tasks/study for an exam/whatever you need to say.”. Then, at 10 minutes (when he takes a breath ) , say, “Hey, it was great talking, but I need to finish this up now. Have a great workout!”. Or something like that.