Parenting Question (Sports, Small Kids)

Pizzagirl
Tue, 15 Mar 2011 17:34:24 +0000

I mean, is that fair? I suppose we can just tell her it’s a good sport for little girls but grown-up ladies don’t show their inner thighs in public?



In your opinion, would you say you and your H are fully unified on the appropriate dress code for your D as she gets older? My concern is that reading in between the lines, I “hear” either resentment of that dress code, or a desire to placate the H (understandably, to be sure) rather than have it out with him. Please don’t misunderstand, I’m not telling you how to run your marriage, but it seems like this has power struggle potential written all over it and you two will need to come up with something that feels livable and workable for both of you, not just one giving in to the other and biting one’s tongue.