Pickin up chicks: different in college compared to highschool

Easy
Thu, 03 Jul 2008 18:22:41 +0000

If you really got game, you wouldn’t care what gimmicks other “worse-looking, less athletic…” guys are using to pick up chicks. Only weak players who are insecure about their abilities feel threatened when “lesser” people just start to have clue about what what they are doing.



It’s one thing to lack confidence in your game and be generally insecure. It’s another thing to recognize increased competition. Mystery lost his girlfriend to Herbal. Was Mystery a bad pickup artist? No. He faced increased competition.

You’re assuming or accusing me of being insecure for rhetorical purposes–it’s glaringly transparent that you’re making that assumption to accentuate your point.



And they can only get you that far. And what’s far more important and affects a player’s performance fundamentally is inner game, which include your self image, self confidence and your values.



Tyler Durden never acquired inner game. He did more than okay on the pickup scene. Social robots much?



A real experienced PUA knows that how you say it is more important than what you say. Body language and other non-verbal communications convey as much if not more to girls in a conversation than the actual words.



Okay so? What does this have to with inner game? You can fake body language and other non-verbal cues, just like you can recite scripted material.



Looks have very little to do with picking up chicks. If you are athletic, good looking, but lose chicks to fat average looking guy who got game, then if you no one to blame but yourself.



Yes, I agree, but don’t think your insinuation that I’m losing girls to “lesser” guys is opaque.

Think about the baseball & steroids analogy instead of going off on an inferiority complex-fueled lecture backed with your own presumptions–of course I’m not fond of guys going to PUA clinics to mitigate my natural advantages and the skills that I’ve built up over the years. This is all hypothetical of course. I’ve never actually met or encountered a “PUA,” much less lost girls to one.