please help bankruptcy questions

cptofthehouse
Sat, 30 Jul 2011 15:57:51 +0000

As a family who went all out for Jack1, we realized that it was a financial mistake to do so. Things happened in the next few years that made it clearly unwise to do the same for our other Jacks. You don’t want to perpetuate a mistake that was made. That your husband has already undergone a bankruptcy and the family is still getting fall out from it really changes the the decision making blocks. Sometimes you can’t do for the other kids as you did for the first, and sometimes subsequent kids get the goodies that the older kids did not get. I think my younger ones got mellower, more experienced and less stressed out parents. There are benefits to being the younger ones as well as disadvantages. You cannot give everyone equal treatment because the situations differ over time.