PLEASE HELP! I am so stuck at my school!

dfin2013
Tue, 06 Oct 2015 05:13:50 +0000

It sounds like you are absolutely unhappy socially…but what do you want to do with your life? How are you doing academically? Are you in a program that will lead to a good job or grad school? Close and genuine friends can come from classes, or perhaps a research project or even a job on campus. You don’t HAVE to be miserable for the next 2.5 years. You can find something fulfilling on another level - and perhaps that will lead to a social life

Transferring and rushing as a junior means that you will be a pledge with kids two years younger. That’s probably not a strategy that leads to what you are currently seeking. You may have to take a different path than Greek life at your school, but I bet you can stop focusing on what you DON’T have, and find something worthwhile. Also, look into the possibility of graduating in three years - get out and have a social life in grad school or as a young professional.