PLEASE HELP! I am so stuck at my school!

NorthernMom61
Tue, 06 Oct 2015 06:01:05 +0000

You have two choices…

1. Change your mindset, refocus on all of the reasons that you chose this college in the first place, dig into all the positives that must have been on that list, take advantage of the prestige and quality education that is at your feet and you are lucky to be able to afford, and STOP grieving the fantasy college experience that you feel like you are missing. College is not ruined for you, you are ruining your college experience by the way you are thinking about it.

or

1. Transfer out of this amazing school that you were lucky enough to get into and be able to afford, and seek that fantasy college with the movie style partying Greek life, head in the toilet, sleeping on the bathroom floor experience that you feel like you are missing. Maybe it is out there, and maybe you will get to that school and find the same kinds of problems that you are having at this one only now you don't have the prestigious, high quality education that you were lucky to be awarded and afford.

These are the tough types of decisions of adulthood, and the mindsets that you have regarding everything in your life, from your education, your jobs, you spouse, your house, your city, etc will determine whether or not you are always feeling like you are missing something and that there is something better out there.

Good luck with your decision.